Frequently Asked Questions

What is a mama bear?

Mama Bear: a creature that is all cute and cuddly…until you mess with her kids. Then $#!% just got real.

Apolo… what? what are you apologizing for?

“Apologetics” can be an odd sounding word. Basically, the study of Christian Apologetics is a reasoned defense of the Christian faith. Knowing scripture is very important, but so is being confident that what we read in our Bibles is the same as what was originally written. Trusting in Jesus is at the core of Christianity. But how can we do that without knowing for sure that a man named Jesus really walked the earth, died, and rose again? Apologetics looks at the things that Christians take for granted, and asks the question “Does history, archeology, logic, and evidence back this up?” The answer is a resounding “Yes!!”

What is mama bear apologetics?

 Mama Bear Apologetics is predominantly an audio formatted ministry for moms with busy schedules. Many moms – especially those with young children – don’t have the luxury to just sit and read (unless you count those few precious moments in the bathroom before little fingers start clawing their way under the door in desperation to show you their latest conquest – like how big a spit bubble they can make.) Because of this, we want Mama Bear to provide resources and equipping in a way that fits your life and your schedule. For those who are visual learners or want a quick overview, we have the blogs and articles and podcast summaries and resources. For those who love to multitask and prefer audio format, (i.e. those whose only “free time” is while they commute, fold laundry, sit at soccer practice or make dinner) we have the podcasts. Basically we want to do whatever we can to equip you as a mom without making you feel like you have to add one. more. thing. to your crazy schedule. Just bring us along on your way to pick up your daughter from ballet practice, or while you’re at the grocery store. Our biggest goal for the future is to have a Mama Bear App which will make searching and listening to podcasts more efficient than a mobile website. Please pray for God to provide the resources for us to do so.

Why study apologetics? Shouldn’t we just have faith?

We’ve heard people say to us, “Well if you knew everything, then why would you need faith?” This is itself a faulty view of faith. Hebrews says that faith is “being sure of what you hope for, and certain of what you do not see.” Doesn’t anything that makes you more sure and more certain increase your faith? It sure does!

And let’s face it: If we raise reasonable, rational children, they will eventually start asking why they believe what they believe. The primary objective of apologetics isn’t to convince someone who has already left the faith. The primary purpose of apologetics is to keep individuals from walking away in the first place. I (Hillary) ABSOLUTELY attribute my apologetics training as the main reason I kept my faith all through college and beyond. Occasionally I’d start wondering, “Do I just believe this because I grew up in the Bible belt? Is this really true?” Every time, I went back to the “Evidence for the Resurrection” and “The Reliability of New Testament Manuscripts” series that my pastor did when I was young. I was twelve at the time. (You heard me! Twelve!) I’d have to check my brain at the door to leave the faith, which is oddly what most people accuse Christians of doing to have faith in the first place. But again, this comes from the “faith is believing in something you know ain’t so” definition of faith. When we are given solid reasons for which to have faith, it is much harder to lose one’s faith. Lasting faith is believing in something that one has good reason to believe in!

What is the youth exodus?

The Youth Exodus Project is a joint project of several ministries – including Mama Bear, Ratio Christi and Probe Ministries. Our goal is to understand and communicate the research regarding why youth are leaving the church in record numbers upon graduation from high school. While some do return, many do not. As a church we need to be aware of the trend, and we need to listen to those who left so that we can begin to understand why so many young people feel that church is not the place for them anymore.  If we don’t seek to understand the trend, we’ll never be able to reverse the trend. For a great summary on the Youth Exodus research and proposed solutions, see Ryan Huxley’s outline.

Can Mama Bears come speak at my event?

We would love to come speak at your event as a team or as individuals. For a current list of available speakers and topics, please visit our Speaking page.

I’m a beginner to apologetics. Where do I start?

Good for you! Learning apologetics is not the easiest thing in the world, but it is fun! If you are a little nervous about jumping into some book that expects you to understand how quantum epistemic realities relate to the metaphysical world, relax… We’ve got some great intro material to recommend!
Also, check out our Resources page!

Cold Case Christianity

Cold Case Christianity is one of the best and easiest reads out there. J. Warner Wallace is a 30-year veteran cold case detective and former atheist who decided to put his skills as a detective to use and “prove” Christianity false. In the process, he began to realize that the evidence for the Christian faith was convincing and became a Christian himself. He does an incredible job of explaining how detectives evaluate evidence and then takes the reader through the evidence for the resurrection and reliability of New Testament documents. We cannot recommend it enough.

You can find it in print here, the Kindle version here, the audible version here, and audio CD set here.


Mere Christianity is still in my Top 5 favorite apologetics books of all time. I (Hillary)  first went through it in a high school Bible class, and it was love at first page. C.S. Lewis is one of the greatest minds of the last century. He is also the author of the acclaimed children’s Narnia series – perfect for reading with your children before bed. Mere Christianity takes you on Lewis’ journey from atheism to Christianity, exploring the logic that brought him to his knees when he recognized that all his arguments against the Christian God didn’t make sense once he dug a little deeper. Mere Christianity is available in print new or used, Kindle, online audio, or as a CD boxed set.

Keeping Your Kids on God's Side

Love Your God With All Your Mind is also one of our favorite intro books. So often we are reminded that we are to love the Lord with all our heart, but we forget about that whole mind aspect. In this book, J.P. Moreland gives an inspiring and empowering case for what it means to love God with all our minds, and exactly why it is important to do so. This book is available new and used, on Kindle, and in audio format as well as mp3 CDs.

Our good friend Natasha Crain’s second book is a great place to start for a general overview of apologetics questions relating to God. The best part about it is the conversation guides at the end of each chapter which take you step-by-step how to talk with your kids about these important issues. You can find print version here, and Kindle version here.