Everything went wrong. It caused young teens to have confidence issues in there bodies and self confidence and eventually be denying of their spouse physically, because it’s “wrong”. You can’t unteach seven plus years of youth group brain washing. Start to teach your teenagers now about sex, marriage, and all the fun you actually can have!
Thanks Jerry Falwell, and James Dobson for demonizing anything physical as a teen growing up in the 80s and 90s. If you are told sex is bad for years on end and then you get married and are told it’s “OK”, that is a huge failure in the church. One can not go from being brainwashed sex is bad to now “yes you are allowed to have sex with your now husband” over the course of a ceremony that only lasts 30 minutes! How do you unbrainwash the teaching of 7 years in a 30 minute ceremony?
Just because Paul chose to be single and he writes of slanted views on it, does not mean that is the right way. The more the church demonizes something, the more our youth are going to be curious. Let’s cut it off and be real and talk about it. Not in some manner that is so “the perfect Christian family around the table” but no kidding real conversation about real life physical activities they may be presented with.
Everything went wrong. It caused young teens to have confidence issues in there bodies and self confidence and eventually be denying of their spouse physically, because it’s “wrong”. You can’t unteach seven plus years of youth group brain washing. Start to teach your teenagers now about sex, marriage, and all the fun you actually can have!
Thanks Jerry Falwell, and James Dobson for demonizing anything physical as a teen growing up in the 80s and 90s. If you are told sex is bad for years on end and then you get married and are told it’s “OK”, that is a huge failure in the church. One can not go from being brainwashed sex is bad to now “yes you are allowed to have sex with your now husband” over the course of a ceremony that only lasts 30 minutes! How do you unbrainwash the teaching of 7 years in a 30 minute ceremony?
Just because Paul chose to be single and he writes of slanted views on it, does not mean that is the right way. The more the church demonizes something, the more our youth are going to be curious. Let’s cut it off and be real and talk about it. Not in some manner that is so “the perfect Christian family around the table” but no kidding real conversation about real life physical activities they may be presented with.