Frequently Asked Questions

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What is a Mama Bear?

Mama Bear: a creature that is all cute and cuddly… until you mess with her kids. Then $#!% just got real.

Apolo... what? What are you apologizing for?

“Apologetics” can be an odd sounding word. Basically, the study of Christian Apologetics is a reasoned defense of the Christian faith. Knowing scripture is very important, but so is being confident that what we read in our Bibles is the same as what was originally written. Trusting in Jesus is at the core of Christianity. But how can we do that without knowing for sure that a man named Jesus really walked the earth, died, and rose again? Apologetics looks at the things that Christians take for granted, and asks the question “Does history, archeology, logic, and evidence back this up?” The answer is a resounding “Yes!!”

What is Mama Bear Apologetics?

Mama Bear Apologetics is a predominently audio formatted ministry for moms with busy schedules. Many moms – especially those with young children – don’t have the luxury to just sit and read (unless you count those few precious moments in the bathroom before little fingers start clawing their way under the door in desperation to show you their latest conquest – like how big a spit bubble they can make.) Because of this, we want Mama Bear to provide resources and equipping in a way that fits your life and your schedule. For those who are visual learners or want a quick overview, we have the blogs and articles and podcast summaries and resources. For those who love to multitask and prefer audio format, (i.e. those whose only “free time” is while they commute, fold laundry, sit at soccer practice or make dinner) we have the podcasts. Basically we want to do whatever we can to equip you as a mom without making you feel like you have to add one. more. thing. to your crazy schedule. Just bring us along on your way to pick up your daughter from ballet practice, or while you’re at the grocery store. Our biggest goal for the future is to have a Mama Bear App which will make searching and listening to podcasts more efficient than a mobile website. Please pray for God to provide the resources for us to do so.

Why study apologetics? Shouldn't we just have faith?

My husband and I have had people say to us, “Well if you knew everything, then why would you need faith?” This is itself a faulty view of faith. Hebrews says that faith is “being sure of what you hope for, and certain of what you do not see.” So I ask you: Doesn’t anything that makes you more sure and more certain increase your faith? It sure does!

And let’s face it: If we are raising reasonable, rational children, they will eventually start asking for reasons for why they believe what they believe. The primary objective for apologetics isn’t to convince someone who has already left the faith. The primary purpose of apologetics is to keep individuals from walking away in the first place. I (Hillary) ABSOLUTELY attribute my apologetics training as the main reason I kept my faith all through college and beyond. Each time I started wondering, “Do I just believe this because I grew up in the Bible belt? Is this really true?” Each and every time, I went back to the evidences for the resurrection that my pastor equipped me with when I was twelve years old. (You heard me! Twelve!)

What is the youth exodus?

The Youth Exodus Project is a joint project of several ministries – including Mama Bear, Ratio Christi and Probe Ministries. Our goal is to understand and communicate the research regarding why youth are leaving the church in record numbers upon graduation from high school. While some do return, many do not. As a church we need to be aware of the trend, and we need to listen to those who left so that we can begin to understand why so many young people feel that church is not the place for them anymore.  If we don’t seek to understand the trend, we’ll never be able to reverse the trend. For a great summary on the Youth Exodus research and proposed solutions, see Ryan Huxley’s outline.

Do you do speaking engagements?

Hillary and Rebekah would be happy to come present at your women’s group as a team, or Hillary is comfortable speaking on her own.  Hillary’s favorite topics are The Youth Exodus, the role of science in apologetics, challenges to the Darwinian model, the problem of evil, and understanding and diagnosing doubt. She is available to travel during the week, but prefers the weekend so that she doesn’t have to take too much time off work. And she needs notice, so that it doesn’t fall at the same time as graduate finals. Rebekah prefers to limit her speaking engagements to co-presenting with Hillary. She is still a bit shy by herself. 🙂 She too prefers to travel on the weekends when her husband can be home with their two daughters, though with enough advanced notice, she could make arrangements.

I'm a beginner to apologetics. Where do I start?

Good for you! Learning apologetics is not the easiest thing in the world, but it is fun! If you are a little nervous about jumping into some book that expects you to understand how quantum epistemic realities relate to the metaphysical world, relax… We’ve got some great intro material to recommend!

Okeeping-your-kids-on-Gods-sideur good friend Natasha Crain’s first book is out!! This is a great place to start for a general overview of apologetics questions. It goes through the Top 40 questions you need to begin having with your kids now, and provides some really awesome tips for implementing the research in the final chapter. If apologetics is totally new to you, and you are wondering what kinds of questions your children might already be asking, this is a good place to start.

You can find  print versions here, and kindle versions here.




Cold Case ChristianityCold Case Christianity is also one of the best and easiest reads out there. J. Warner Wallace is a 30-year veteran cold case detective and former atheist who decided to put his skills as a detective to use and “prove” Christianity false.  In the process, he began to realize that the evidence for the Christian faith was actually convincing, and became a Christian himself.  He does an incredible job of explaining how detectives evaluate evidence and then takes you the reader through the evidence for the resurrection and reliability of New Testament documents. I cannot recommend it enough.

You can find it in print here, kindle version here, and audible version here and audio CD set here.


MereChristianityMere Christianity is still in my Top 5 favorite apologetics books of all time. I first went through it in a high school Bible class, and it was love at first page. C.S. Lewis is inarguably one of the greatest minds of the last century. He is also the author of the acclaimed children’s Narnia series – perfect for reading with your children before bed. Mere Christianity takes you on Lewis’ journey from atheism to Christianiry, exploring the logic that brought him to his knees when he recognized that all his arguments against the Christian God didn’t make sense once he dug a little deeper. Mere Christianity is a available in print new or used, kindle, and online audio or as a CD boxed set.




Keeping Your Kids on God's SideLove Your God With All Your Mind is also one of my favorite intro books. So often we are reminded that we re to love the Lord with all our heart, but we forget about that whole mind aspect. In this book, J.P. Moreland gives an inspiring and empowering case for what it means to love God with all our minds, and exactly why it is important to do so. This book is available new and used, on kindle, and in audio format as well as mp3 CD’s.

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